The second teen who was not confirmed at the Catholic church
voluntarily withdrew in support of his friend, but was not at odds with
the church regarding gay marriage, his father said Monday.
Jay
Kisch said his 16-year-old son, Ryne, did not agree with 17-year-old
Lennon Cihak’s support of same-sex marriage, instead withdrawing from
the confirmation process at Assumption Church here “out of compassion
and concern” for Cihak.
“They don’t necessarily share the
same viewpoint on gay marriage, but yet they’re good friends and very
supportive of each other,” Jay Kisch said.
The Cihak family
has maintained their claim that the Rev. Gary La-Moine denied the teen
confirmation after LaMoine was made aware of a pro same-sex marriage
photo on Lennon’s Facebook page last month.
In a letter to
the parish made public last Friday, LaMoine said both Cihak and another
“candidate,” meaning Ryne Kisch, withdrew from the confirmation process
“because of their disagreement with the teaching of the Church
concerning marriage.”
When asked last week, LaMoine would
not name Ryne – who, along with Cihak, was not identified in the letter –
but said he was uncertain about why the teen did not go through with
confirmation.
“He has his own reasons, and I don’t know
what they were. People have a right to choose,” LaMoine told The Forum
on Friday. Jay Kisch said his son was willing to be publicly identified
because La-Moine won’t set the record straight.
“My son
feels like he’s been maligned,” he said. “No one even asked him why he
didn’t want to go through the confirmation process. I think it was just
assumed that he believed in gay marriage.”
Although Ryne,
who has been a friend of Cihak’s since kindergarten, says he does not
support same-sex marriage, he still wanted to stand with his friend.
“We disagree on the views but we can still be friends,” Ryne said. “I decided to stick up for him.”
Jay
Kisch says they have since left the church, which they had been
attending since 1999 when they moved to Barnesville. And while he said
he didn’t want to detract from Lennon’s story or blame LaMoine, Jay
Kisch did show support for the Cihak family.
“They’re good
Christians,” he said. “If Father Gary doesn’t want to call them good
Catholics, that’s his prerogative, but they’re good Christians.”