The priest who sparked the international expansion of faith-based
marriage enrichment retreats, Fr. Chuck Gallagher, passed away July 21
at the age of 85 in New Jersey.
“He taught us so much about loving each other, loving the world and how
to be better people,” Diane Baumbach, who attended a Marriage Encounter
weekend with her husband in 1973 said.
“He’s just been so important in our lives,” Mrs. Baumbach told CNA July
22. “We think his memory and legacy will be with us for centuries.”
Her husband, Dick, agreed while adding that “I just think that another
saint has truly gone to heaven – the miracle that happened on this earth
in marriages by Fr. Chuck’s determination and vision and guidance, will
last forever.”
The Baumbachs were so moved by their weekend that they eventually began
working for the organization with Fr. Dick Morse as the North American
Weekend Pillar team.
“The weekend had such an impact on us that it not only changed our
lives, but it also changed our children’s lives. His vision and his
looking at the future helped us to become a better couple,” Mr. Baumbach
said.
The couple said that without Fr. Gallagher’s vision and determination to
expand the movement, they are “not sure we would have continued working
on (our marriage).”
Although Spanish priest Fr. Gabriel Calvo is recognized as the founder of the Marriage Encounter weekend, Fr. Gallagher is known for taking the retreat to an international level.
Fr. Gallagher attended a Marriage Encounter weekend in 1968 and decided
to expand it by it to a broader level. One year later in 1969, he and
two other priests and couples had presented 22 weekends in the New York
area.
Over the next few years, the weekend retreats had become so popular that
they spread across the United States and into Canada. By the mid-1970s,
priests and couples had moved as far away to Australia in order to
offer the retreats.
Along with his work for the Worldwide Marriage Encounter, Fr. Gallagher
was an author and developed other programs to help individuals as well
as couples navigate through life’s challenges.
Each Marriage Encounter weekend offers couples time away from the
busyness of daily life to focus on their relationship as husband and
wife. It provides tools for creating and maintaining a strong marriage
and is updated frequently to keep up with challenges that modern society
presents.
The Worldwide Marriage Encounter is now in nearly 100 countries and has
helped millions of couples all over the world strengthen their
marriages.