On Tuesday, a day of remembrance will be held for transgender persons
throughout the world who have been killed in the last year.
In Chicago,
Denver, Tucson, Ariz., New Orleans and many other U.S. cities,
candlelight vigils are planned, during which a litany of names of those
who have died violent deaths will be sounded.
(See the celebration's website for a further listing of cities and schedules of ceremonies.)
It is fitting that Catholics join in this celebration. November is
the month in which we honor All Saints and All Souls, remembering those
who have gone before us.
Another claim on the Catholic community is the
church's commitment to social justice.
The violence against transgender
persons -- including bullying of children, the adult experiences of
discrimination at work, physical intimidation and even murder -- cries
out for protest from a faith community that would witness to peace and
justice.
But there are obstacles as well. On many sexual and gender
issues, official church statements do not always contribute to social
healing.
The words of Genesis, "male and female God made them," have often
been interpreted as the foundation of theories of sexual dimorphism:
Human nature was constructed in two and only two genders. Religious
authorities reinforce this gender dichotomy as both theological doctrine
and moral mandate.
Yet human experience records a dazzling diversity in God's creation,
registered in humanity as well. When we find ourselves confused or even
bewildered by the questions surrounding gender diversity, it is useful
to recall that bewilderment sometimes serves virtuous purposes.
As one
historian of religion writes, bewilderment may "correct the inclination
to unwarranted certainty."
Our bewilderment, at first so unsettling, may
serve as a portal to humility and open us to God's extravagance so
generously on display throughout the world. St. Paul spoke of this
diversity in bodily terms: "Now you are the body of Christ and
individually members of it" (1 Corinthians 12:27). He counsels us that
those most vulnerable members are to be cared for with the greatest
respect; he reminds us that if one member suffers, all members suffer.
And, in a conviction that has special relevance for transgender
Christians, "No members can say to another, we do not need you."
We are more aware today that gender and anatomy are not the same.
The
first formation of gender takes place before we are born, under the
influence of prenatal hormones that influence the fetal brain. While we
are afloat in our mother's womb, our tiny bodies and brains are awash in
these hormones. Powerful chemicals prompt the gradual development of
male or female genitalia, as well as inscribing a sense of gender
identity in the brain. Most often, the baby's anatomy will match the
brain's sense of gender identity.
But not always.
Most transsexuals as
early as childhood experience a powerful and enduring dissonance between
the gender their bodies display and their interior sense of themselves
as woman or man. For many, the search for gender integrity will entail a
long and painful struggle.
Spiritual health depends on a sorting out of
this disconnect and moving toward a harmony in their experience of
gender identity.
More and more Christian communities are becoming aware that the
transition the transgender person faces is, in fact, a spiritual
journey. The United Methodist Church has published a valuable guide,
"Made in God's Image."
In it, they write, "We understand our gender
diversity to be a gift of God, intended to add to the rich variety of
human experience and perspective," and "the problem is not in being
different, but in living in a fearful, condemning world."
A Lutheran parish in San Francisco has created a renaming ritual to
celebrate the completion of a transgender person's transition and
welcome the person into the community. In doing so, this gathering is
following our tradition of renaming individuals (Jacob in Genesis 32;
Paul in the New Testament) who have come through life-transforming
changes.
A Catholic sister has developed Trans Awareness Evening to introduce
more of the faithful to the challenges and hopes of transgender members
of the body of Christ. She also offers simple ceremonies of blessing for
persons preparing for gender-confirming surgery.
In her spiritual
direction with transgender persons themselves, she invites them to pray
Psalm 139: "It is you who formed my inmost parts. You knit me together
in my mother's womb. I praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully
made." In the midst of such prayers, transgender hearts, long abused by
social and religious rejection, begin to heal.
Such ministries are responding to the Christian heritage of a
community of faith as both sanctuary and sacrament. In medieval times,
the church building often served as sanctuary to protect the life of
fugitives; today, churches might renew this ministry of welcome and
protection of transgender members.
Hilary Howes, a Catholic transsexual, writes in Conscience magazine:
"I hope that Catholics would look at the body of scientific and medical
evidence to develop a loving acceptance of those of us with this
variation." She adds, "I understand that my journey, though personal,
touches that which is universal about gender for everyone ... looking at
everything as us and them, black and white, male or female, is limiting
and dangerous. Ultimately, welcoming the mystery of diversity in God's
plan is the healing for our church for which I most hope."
In the broader US culture, a process of appreciating the experience
of transgender lives is under way. Film director Lana Wachowski ("Cloud
Atlas") talks openly of beginning life as Larry before transitioning to
Lana. Transgender young adults find their transitions less fraught by
years of denial and fearful pretending. This new generation is opening
the way to a richer appreciation of God's creation. Listening to their
experience, the larger community comes more easily to affirm Paul's
judgment: "There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or
free; there is no longer male or female; for you are all one in Christ
Jesus" (Galatians 3:28).
But even as these encouraging changes take place, it behooves us to
pause in respect for those transgender members of our community who have
been victims of violence. So we gather in solidarity and in prayer on
Tuesday.