Grieving families have defied a deadline set by the Church of Ireland for them
to remove mementos from their loved ones’ graves.
Relatives gathered at the graveyard at Bovevagh Church near Dungiven on
Tuesday to make sure the plaques were still in place.
The Church of Ireland last Wednesday refused to comment on whether action would now
follow the passing of the deadline.
The relatives said that in a church newsletter a series of new
regulations about graves were mentioned along with notification of a grave
inspection.
Sadie Young, who was ordered to remove two small plaques featuring photos of
her partner William Hutton in his tractor and with a horse and cart, was
among those who checked the graves.
Mr Hutton (61) died suddenly from an aneurysm 15 months ago.
Ms Young said:
“We have not heard whether anything will happen now but I am not for moving
the plaque.”
Jean McCloskey put a photograph in a four-inch ceramic surround on the grave
of her brother Georgie, who died 10 years ago from skin cancer at the age of
46.
The picture features Georgie engaged in his favourite pastime of fishing, and
was placed on the headstone on his birthday on October 5 in 2008.
Ms McCloskey said she has now written a letter to Bishop of Derry Ken Good
outlining her concerns about the vestry’s directive.
A spokeswoman for the Church of Ireland said there would be no
further comment to a statement issued last week which confirmed that three
families have received “polite letters seeking the removal of items which
were not approved”.
The statement said: “Select vestries have responsibility for the care of
graveyards for past, present and future generations.
“The Select Vestry will not be making any further comments on this matter.”
Background
Families of those buried in the graveyard at Bovevagh Church near Dungiven
last week received letters telling them to take down small photo plaques
from headstones by May 31.
The Select Vestry said the graveyard must be a “a
place where everyone feels comfortable”.
It said no approval was given for items to be put on graves.