Brecon Cathedral is holding a vigil this week as part of a campaign to end legalised violence against children.
The vigil is part of a roadshow at the cathedral on 25 and 26 April
where help and advice will be available to parents on how to manage
children's behaviour in positive ways.
During the vigil, candles will be lit to remember children who have
suffered violence.
Children taking part in the vigil will have their
feet washed as a sign of respect.
The roadshow is being run by the Churches' Network for Non-violence
and the charity Children in Wales. Both organisations are part of the
Children Are Unbeatable! campaign, which is also calling for a ban on
smacking children.
The vigil on Friday evening will be led the Dean of Brecon, Geoffrey Marshall.
He said, "Every parent and carer knows that disciplining children is
not easy – I certainly found it difficult at times when bringing up my
own children and am discovering it afresh with my three young
grandchildren. However, resorting to violence and smacking is not effective and
should no longer be seen as acceptable behaviour or reasonable
punishment.
There are far better ways of teaching children how to respect
boundaries and behave well and that message needs to get out to every
family. Ending violence against children is a religious imperative and the church has a responsibility to work with others to do so. During the service we will remember all children who have suffered
from violence, demonstrate our respect for children and dedicate
ourselves to listening to them and playing our part in making our homes
and communities safe places for children to grow and flourish."
Chris Dodd, co-ordinator of the Churches' Network for Non-Violence
said, "This vigil is being held as a mark of respect for children and an
expression of solidarity and support towards ending legalised violence
against children. Violence against children is incompatible with the core religious
principles of compassion, justice, equality and nonviolence and it
breaches a child's fundamental right to respect for human dignity and
physical integrity.
Prohibition of all corporal punishment of children, together with
support for positive, non-violent discipline is a key to a more
compassionate and peaceful world. Action is needed now to end this
common-place violence against children."
The Archbishop of Wales, Dr Barry Morgan has previously spoken of his support for a ban on smacking.
He was one of the signatories of a statement last year saying that
legislation to remove the defence of reasonable punishment was "crucial
because it reflects the compassionate, non-violent society we want for
all our children".
The End Legalised Violence Against Children Roadshow will be held on
April 25 from 10am-5pm and on April 26 from 10am-3pm at Brecon
Cathedral. The vigil, also at the Cathedral, begins at 6pm on April 26.