USA : Election night was, for me, a true multimedia event.
My television was
tuned to the local PBS station, with Gwen Ifill, David Brooks and Mark
Shields providing analysis as the returns came in.
But most of the
breaking news came from my other screen: my laptop.
Jumping between news websites, my Facebook and Twitter feeds, and a
couple private chats, I stayed on top of which states were being
projected for Mitt Romney and which were going for Barack Obama.
In
fact, I was typing the news that Ohio had been called for Obama when PBS
announced that he had indeed been re-elected president of the United
States.
I'll admit it: I cried. But I was tempted to cheer, which wouldn't have
been a surprising response, given how the democratic election of the
leader of our country pretty much resembles the Super Bowl, the World
Series and the World Cup, all rolled into one.
By the next morning, the American people, who had previously been
divided into Democrats ("blue") and Republicans ("red"), could now be
labeled "winners" and "losers" based on the presidential and other,
local election results.
Demographic groups, too, were categorized as
winners or losers. Women, Latinos and other people of color, and gays
and lesbians were popping champagne. White men? Not so much.
The Catholic church was also declared a loser. Although a number of
vocal bishops had insisted that opposition to abortion, gay marriage
and/or comprehensive contraceptive insurance coverage were the defining
issues of this election, a majority of U.S. Catholics did not follow the
hierarchy's thinly veiled campaigning for the Republican ticket and
platform.
It's no fun to be the loser. I should know; I'm a Cubs fan. But it's
been interesting to observe the reactions of those who did not prevail
on Nov. 6. In his concession speech, Romney appeared sad and a little
shocked, but he called for an end to "partisan bickering and political
posturing" and urged his supporters to pray for the president and the
country.
Cardinal Timothy Dolan of New York also promised prayers, but
got in a plug for his priorities in a congratulatory letter to Obama. A
number of conservatives have been uncharacteristically quiet.
But not everyone has been so graceful in defeat, and the blame game has
begun. I heard a conservative talk radio host blame Romney's loss on
his refusal to appear on -- surprise, surprise -- conservative talk
radio.
Others say the Republican Party needs to move more to the center.
Shockingly, one Catholic conservative, Austin Ruse, president of the
Catholic Family & Human Rights Institute, posted his solution on his
Facebook wall, writing, "Women should not be able to vote until they
are married." I can only hope he was kidding.
In a world in which social media allow anyone to broadcast their every
thought and feeling, emotion-laden reactions are the norm, from Donald
Trump's Twitter tantrum ("This election is a total sham and a travesty.
We are not a democracy.") to the legion of references to end times among
some evangelical Christians.
Some of the winners, too, have been less than magnanimous in victory.
If you thought the snarky Tumblr memes would end after the election, you
would be wrong, since apparently the temptation to gloat is too strong.
A number of liberals have offered to buy a plane ticket for Rush
Limbaugh, who famously promised to move to Costa Rica (where ironically
there is universal health care) if Obamacare passed.
Others seem just a
little too happy to dance on conservatism's grave.
True, there is much talk about "reaching across the aisle" and the need
to work together to avoid the "fiscal cliff."
But when one side
complains about partisanship, they're usually talking about the need for
the other side to compromise. Too much of the lament about political
polarization is itself merely more political posturing.
So where do we go from here, as Americans and as Catholic Christians?
Do those who are grieving and those who are celebrating have anything in
common? Or are we headed for the next civil war?
Author Parker J. Palmer, a Quaker, believes Americans today -- much
like at the time of the Civil War -- are brokenhearted and in need of
healing.
The "politics of rage," like any expression of intense anger,
is really a mask for heartbreak, he writes in Healing the Heart of Democracy: The Courage to Create a Politics Worthy of the Human Spirit (Jossey-Bass, 2011).
Healing that anger takes inner, spiritual work.
As I learned during a
retreat with Palmer this fall, he believes five "habits of the heart"
are critical to sustaining a democracy, the most difficult of which
seems to be the ability to hold tension in life-giving ways and an
appreciation of the value of "otherness."
Such habits are spiritual
disciplines that require prayer and practice.
The Gospel reading on the Sunday before Election Day featured Jesus
telling the scribes that the greatest commandments are to love God and
to love your neighbor as yourself (Mark 12).
While we may interpret
those commandments differently, it seems a fitting place to start the
necessary healing after the election.
With love, there are no winners
and losers.
Either we all win, or we all lose.