TWO men who have been partners for 17 years will finally get their chance to officially tie the knot this week.
Dubliners
Barry Dignam and Hugh Walsh will make history on Tuesday when they
become the first gay couple to enter a civil partnership under new
legislation.
The ink was barely dry on the minister's signature on
the new law when Barry proposed to his long-term partner during their
Christmas holiday in Gran Canaria.
But the couple had to wait the mandatory three months before enjoying their big day out.
Tuesday is the first day civil partnership ceremonies can take place under the new law -- and Barry and Hugh are first in line.
"The
moment was there and I had to take it," said Barry, explaining why he
chose to pop the question over an anniversary dinner with Hugh. "In some
ways for us, it will be like a renewal of our vows."
The couple
exchanged commitment vows in front of family and friends 10 years ago.
But having their partnership recognised by the State is hugely important
for both of them.
"If I was in a car crash and was injured, they
would be looking for some relation of mine and Barry would be completely
ignored, even though he is the most important person in my life," said
Hugh, an IT sales manager.
Barry, a film-maker and lecturer, said
that after they exchange vows at Dublin's Registry Office at 3.30pm on
Tuesday, they will not have to worry about inheritance tax or the house
they share, should anything happen to them.
Marriage
Both
still want to see the introduction of full gay-marriage rights but, for
the moment, they are happy to become civil partners.
"When we
first met, it was still illegal. Now our partnership is going to be
recognised by the State. That is a huge journey in one lifetime," said
Hugh.
Although Barry proposed, neither is planning to be late on
their big day.
And after the official service, they are planning a
low-key celebratory meal with family and friends.
They have also booked a
short honeymoon in Venice.