When they awoke Feb. 20, 1967, Father George Weinmann and Sister Lilian Marie McLaughlin did not know that by early afternoon they’d perform actions that would cost them their lives - and render them modern-day martyrs in the eyes of many.
Yet when danger stared them down, in the form of a fire spreading
through St. Philip Neri Church, they responded as only people with great
Weinmann, the pastor, rushed into the burning building to save the
Blessed Sacrament inside the tabernacle. McLaughlin, a School Sister of
Notre Dame, who was a teacher at the parish school, soon followed to
Neither made it out. McLaughlin, who had turned 26 just two days
earlier, died on that Monday afternoon. Weinmann, 77, lost his life two
Fifty years after the fact, the profundity of their heroic deeds is
still felt deeply, as evidenced by the overflow crowd at the Church of
the Annunciation Feb. 26 for a 50th anniversary memorial Mass celebrated
by Rochester Bishop Salvatore R. Matano.
Among the attendees were family members of both Weinmann and
McLaughlin, as well as parishioners of the former St. Philip Neri
The homilist, Father Dennis Bonsignore, said the priest and nun
provided a stirring example of their belief in the real presence of
Christ in the Eucharist.
McLaughlin’s brother, Jim, who traveled from his home in Los Angeles
for the memorial Mass, said he wasn’t surprised that his sister was
brave enough to defy the common safety logic of getting away from a
“There are few people who would go toward it. She was one of them,”
he told the Catholic Courier, Rochester’s diocesan newspaper.
Matano told the congregation that Weinmann and McLaughlin are models
for all Catholics to follow in giving fully of themselves to Jesus.
“We pray that in imitation of Sister Lilian Marie and Father George
Weinmann we can say, ‘It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives
in me,'” Matano said, quoting Chapter 2, Verse 20, of St. Paul’s Letter
to the Galatians.
During his homily, Bonsignore noted he had acknowledged the St.
Philip Neri fire on the 25th anniversary, in 1992, while serving at
Irondequoit’s St. Cecilia Parish.
On that day, he said, Peter Fantigrossi happened to be present not
knowing that Bonsignore would be preaching about the fire. Fantigrossi
was the firefighter who carried McLaughlin out of St. Philip Neri. The
incident had left him so distraught that he fell away from church for
But after the 1992 Mass, Bonsignore said, Fantigrossi experienced
healing and renewal. A poem written by Fantigrossi, who died in 2016,
can be found at http://nerifire.webs.com. It is titled “I Held an Angel in My Arms.”
At a reception following the Feb. 26 memorial Mass, Jim McLaughlin
and his sister, Evelyn McLaughlin Sabino, met several members of the
Fantigrossi family for the first time.